After writing my article: Baby Prep: Must Have List, I wanted to specifically address the number of things that we will not be getting, since I found “Not Needed” lists almost as helpful as the “Must-have” lists.
Let me preface this with stating these are items that my husband and I deemed unnecessary for us. Your life may require something completely different! And guys, that is totally ok. We shouldn’t feel ashamed for making choices that are based on what is best for our families or situations. We’re also giving ourselves the grace to change our minds, since life is full of surprises and re-evaluation is a valuable tool. That said: list time!
Baby shoes
No. You can barely keep socks on those wigglers, why would you need shoes? If you think about shoe’s function (protecting your feet walking) it really doesn’t make sense till they’re…WALKING. Even then, they really have to be walking independently, rather than being supported by you since that usually happens in a padded or controlled environment. Unless they’re learning to walk on a gravel road? Pass these by and get something useful instead.
Short Baby Socks, Leg Warmers or Knee pads
I’m opting for long baby sock that will serve as leg warmers, knee pads, subtle pants, mittens and socks.
Baby Mittens
I’m getting some long socks and nail clippers. I don’t want this extra laundry.
Baby Headbands and Bows
These are mostly for girls but I wouldn’t get them for either sex. I don’t wear headbands generally myself since they give me headaches and I don’t really want to coordinate accessories for someone else. Less, often equals simpler for me. If we do have a girl, she can pick out her own when she’s older if she wants.
Winter clothes
We live in South Florida, so the coldest it gets here depends on your AC unit. This means we can eliminate jackets, snow pants, boots and all but one or two hats (hospital hats will work for us for the short time our newborn will need them.)
Fancy outfits
Man, I can barely keep my “fancy” clothes looking fresh and I’m a full grown adult. Why would I think a fluid machine like a babe would be able to?
Baby hangers
No outfits that can wrinkle easily will last long in our home anyway. And since I don’t plan on fancy outfits there’s two items less in one go! If you do want some outfits that should be hung, grab a few of your own hangers. They’ll work.
Car seat Cover
A blanket or swaddler will serve.
Burp cloths
I have kitchen towels, cloth napkins and swaddlers. For now, I really don’t want to have to deal with another piece of fabric to wash.
Breastfeeding cover
Guess what? A swaddler will serve! Just tie two corners, loop over your head and voila! Saved $20.
Baby food blender
Have you guys seen the Baby Bullet? I saw it and thought, “Cool, cool, I could save dough making my own baby food and cut out a ton of preservatives! But what is the difference between this and my magic bullet?” The answer? The Baby Bullet has less power. Yep. So if you have some kind of blender or food processor and you like it, utilize your current resources and pass on this.
Baby washcloths
If you have washcloths, those are fine. I doubt your baby will notice the difference.
Hooded towels
You’ve got regular towels that work from years 1 to 110. These just aren’t needed.
Side note: Guys, what is with all the extra fabric items? Noticing a trend here!
Shopping cart covers
I can either babywear, use a carseat or wipe the cart down. It just doesn’t appeal to me to have to set up a fabric cover when I got plenty of other things to occupy my time and energy.
Special baby shampoo, conditioner, body wash or lotion
Unless your baby has exhibited sensitivity, you don’t need to invest in these. I would say to go for something simple and natural but it doesn’t need to be name brand. We use Dr. Bronners unscented soap in our daily life anyway and fair trade shea butter. As for the shampoo? The soap will work for that too. Any hair shorter than 3 inches is getting moisturizing oils from the scalp anyway (how many short haired guys you know use conditioner?) Soap is good enough.
Crib and everything that goes with
We’re not getting a crib. You can see my article and rationale here. This means that we don’t need to get sheets, curtains, bumpers, blankets, crib ruffle and mobile. Talk about a money and space saver!
Changing station
When I say “Changing Station” I mean a piece of furniture dedicated only to changing a baby’s diaper on and the accoutrements. All you really need is a hard flat surface and a cover (sometimes not even that!) Floor and swaddle? Table and kitchen towel? Couch and prayer? Good enough.
Side note: I am prepping a couple “changing bags” to have stashed by where our baby will sleep and the main living area. Our place isn’t big so we could probably pass on this but I don’t want to have to search for anything further than arm’s length for those midnight changes.
Changing Mattress and covers
See above.
Diaper pail and diaper genie
We will be cloth diapering and using a large wet bag instead, which can be hung on a door handle or toted around.
Wipe warmer
I’ve read a lot of reviews on this and 9 out of 10 say its just not worth the effort, isn’t nearby when they need it or wipes just get dried out. One or two said that it was a lifesaver for midnight diaper changes. Just seems like something else to maintain to me, and we will be using cloth wipes and straight up water from the tap, so I’ll just let the water warm up if I need a warm wipe.
Humidifier/ Air filter
Again, we live in Florida so humidity is not in short supply. We also have house plants that are known air purifiers which I think is much prettier and renewable resource!
Diaper bag
We’re going to use backpack. A normal backpack. I like the idea of a backpack because it leaves us hands free and is more inherently unisex for my husband and I to share. Diaper bags can work well, but why not get a nice bag or backpack that you (or your child) could use when your child is 12 years old? Or maybe instead of a bag that clearly says “mom” on it, get one that you or your husband could use for business or travel later on.
Side note: My husband is currently in charge of getting a backpack so I have no idea what the bag will be, but I know he’ll like it, which is the main thing for me (I really don’t want to carry it!) Will update once I find out what it is.
Unitaskers
I first heard this phrase in the latter half of one of my favorite podcasts of all time, Simple Life Together and you can hear this specific episode here. These refer to any devices that only do one thing (sometimes they don’t do that one thing very well either.) Examples include the egg peeler, tomato saver, or banana slicer. In baby things these include the diaper cream applicator, baby mittens, burp cloths, etc. These items are for a specific task, short phase, and don’t transfer well to other tasks or phases. When purchasing just ask yourself a few questions: Is it worth the investment? Is there an alternative that you already have, will last longer or work better, even though it doesn’t say “baby,” “diaper” or “infant” in the product name?
Whew! Imagine how much space, time and money would be wasted if we purchased all of the above! This list of Must Not Haves could grow daily with all the products that companies come up with to sell to new and current parents. What baby purchases would you say “pass” on? Any unitaskers you guys have seen? Please comment below, I love to hear! So, instead of comparing yourself with people who have the most (HGTV), try comparing with those who have to least (think huts) to get a perspective on what is really needed for this new phase and factor in your current lifestyle for a good starting place. We can do this.
“Oh no! Do I have to buy all that stuff?” That’s what I thought when I started researching what I needed to welcome a baby into my life. The answer is a resounding NO, you don’t need to buy all that stuff. So there, take a sigh of relief and read on. After researching a bit, I found that some baby industries market on fear, guilt and hope to sell a dream… via a product:
“What if your baby won’t stop crying? Better get this baby ______ so you can sleep.”
“Do you want you baby to be smart? They will be with this developmentally stimulating _______ device.”
“Did you know ________ can cause cancer? Luckily we can give (read: sell) you this special BPA and paraphanelates-free, organic, farm fresh, holistically balanced __________.”
…And we buy. Most parents don’t welcome a child into their lives planning for that child to fail. Most desire success for their kid and want to do everything possible to ensure that success. Knowing that mindset and that many parents are entering a new world of experiences for the first time, companies can make BANK.
Lucky for you, there is (and has been) a different way all along.
My greatest comfort after seeing this deluge of “must-have” baby products came from reaching an article (I don’t remember where), that stated babies only need 4 things: something to eat, somewhere to sleep, a way to eliminate and love. Moms already have 2 out of 4: breastfeeding and love. Neither are easy, but both are free. For the bedding front, there are still people today who recall siblings that literally slept in (open) dresser drawers. Ideal? Maybe not. But hey- feel the pressure to be perfect lessen. You can do this, even if you won’t be featured in Better Homes and Gardens magazine. So with love, boob(s) and a drawer or box somewhere that means you have 3/4 things that are really necessary already available! Congratulations! The final piece: elimination. You need diapers and lots of them. Whether you use cloth, disposables or biodegradables, you need a supply or a system.
With this comforting fact in mind, heres how I approached my “Must Have” list.
Qualifiers
Gender neutral colors (grey, white, black, cream). We decided on this because 1) we wanted items that could be reused for multiple children. 2) I love the aesthetics of few, calm colors and I didn’t want having kids to mean that our now peaceful and somewhat minimal home turned into the aftermath of a Willy Wonka Rave (but hey, maybe you’re into that: power to you.) If an item wasn’t available in a gender neutral color, I chose blue. I’m a girl. I like blue. My husband also likes blue. He’s a boy. So there. If you like pink/green/brown/purple, maybe use that.
Minimal-Multifunctional, meaning I wanted things that could perform multiple functions and didn’t leave a lot of choices. This was so I could go on auto-pilot if I only had 2 functioning brain cells till I recovered and WANTED to try new things.
Long-term planning. If you’re having a shower/gender reveal/gift giving occasion, then register for items that you will need in the next few years, not just the next few months. You don’t get a shower at every milestone, but you still need clothes and tools as they grow! Use this time where people WANT to bless you and give you things to prepare for the next couple years.
Now, let’s get to my favorite part: lists!
For simplicity I listed what I believe is a “Must Have” and then added an optional section for items I believe will make my life with a newborn the best possible. Excluding diapers, the “Must Have” section is less than 15 things. You really can go über minimal. I’ll also be posting an article of Our Must Not Have List, that expands on the subject of excess baby items so stay tuned!
Clothes
3-4 short sleeve onsieis/bodysuits* AND 3-4 long-sleeve bodysuits*
Minimal/Multifunctional: Simple colors and patterns. These have the crisscross necks that expand to fit over the head. Kimono style that button open on the side and ones that zip all the way down to the toe are great options too (no trying to finagle a sleepy baby head out of a fabric tube). I opted out of these because while they were hard to find, they seem wonderful. I also found this big pack that has five size 0-3 mo, five size 3-6mo, and five 6-12mo. Because I chose VERY little variety in color or pattern they work for groceries store, church, home, outings or wherever. And the only choice in I have to make in “outfits” is: long or short sleeve?
Minimal/Multifunctional: I got 3-4 packs because firstly, I HATE having different brands and styles of socks and second, I like to buy socks all at once for a year+ so they all match (one less choice to make on 3 hours of sleep.) These replace 3 items: short baby socks, baby leg warmers and baby pants. In emergency I could also use these on arms, say, if all my long sleeve ones were dirty, or as a replacement for mittens (which I heard rarely stay on.) Side tip: Because baby socks are so small they actually can get “eaten” or stuck in your dryer! I grabbed a mesh laundry bag we had lying around and hung it on the laundry basket so it’s easy to toss them in there. Side note: I went a bit off course here because these were so stinking cute. Does baby care? Nope. But it’s an easy way to brighten my day with something that has to be done anyway.
Minimal/Multifunctional: Only two, maybe 3. I don’t want to have to wonder where/how many/etc. It is a replacement for a blanket while baby is too young to have one and some can swaddle as well.
Minimal/Multifunctional: I went heavy on the numbers here because they have so many uses. Swaddling, nursing cover (tie two consecutive corners and wear it like a huge necklace), changing pad, blanket, teether (isn’t everything a teether for a phase?), stroller cover, comfort/snuggler, towel, burp cloth, fluids barrier on beds, floors, clothes, PEOPLE (sorry uncle Joe.) Side tip: I chose Aden and Anis brand because they’re widely known, highly rated and seem to keep their value pretty well (if you sell to a consignment store when you don’t need them, you may get a better price for brand name.) With that said, there are some great swaddles made by tiny companies.
Minimal/Multifunctional: A little different than the long sleeve bodysuits because these are for the 12-18mo age. I am planning on them LIVING in these until the age of 3 years. Don’t we all wish we could live in pajamas? It eliminates a lot of shirts and pants, and the matching of those items, which is nice. Home days, sleep, groceries store, errands, grandparents house, play dates. They’re easy, cute, mobile. Good enough for me.
Be ready to whip ’em out if you’re breastfeeding. Why make life hard? Plus, yo boobies be changing size during pregnancy and daily during breastfeeding so you gotta get some different sizes to cope with that anyway. Get some easy, inexpensive ones.
Maternity Dresses*
Eh, preference. But like with the bras, your body changes a lot so you may have to get some different clothes anyway.
Bathing
Side tip: You don’t want to bathe baby till the umbilical stump falls off in a week-ish, so just do good ol’ sponge bath/spot cleaning as you see fit till then.
Minimal/Multifunctional: its small, easy to care for and store, inexpensive and works in sinks, tubs, showers. It could work from birth until whatever age you feel appropriate. There are A TON of other bathing devices and based on other people’s feedback they seemed too bulky, short lived, made the baby cold, or hard to care for.
2-3 Wash cloths*
No, don’t buy “baby” ones. Do you have any? Those will work. They’re just to scrub the babe (gently) and help keep them warm while bathing.
1Soap
Minimal/Multifunctional: Something unscented and gentle. We use (diluted) Dr. Bronners Castile unscented since we have it already and use it for a ton of other things (house cleaning, dishes, face wash, hand soap, body wash, etc.)
OPTIONAL bathing
1 Pouring device (Like a cup or something to rinse the kid with)
Minimal: A cup? yea. The Skip Hop Moby Bath Tear Free Waterfall Rinser? Not really. I am considering this because so many people have said it works phenomenally well to keep water off kids’ faces. We had a child in our home that screamed BLOODY MURDER about getting water on his face while bathing, so for me, this may be a trauma purchase : )
Sleep
Oh how I struggled over this! Bassinet, Moses basket, baby box, baby rocker, crib, cosleeper and a million options of each kind! With a queen bed and a 6’4 hubby, cosleeping doesn’t really appeal. Small apartment? Yep. Also, I don’t want to have to trek to another room in the middle of the night. What could I get that would grow with them, be easy to store, safe to sleep in, travel well, etc!? Do your research and decide for yourself. For me, this was one of the hardest choices and ended up being one of the most expensive items we got. With that said, I’m pretty happy with the safety, longevity and quality we decided on.
Minimal/Multifunctional: I chose the Lotus Travel Crib and Portable Baby Playard. You can use this from newborn to toddlerhood, which is why it’s the only item I put in my “required” sleeping list. It’s gender neutral, super light for a pack and play (11lb), folds up small and easily into a backpack. Great for bed, travel, home, visiting, beach, and can be used newborn to toddlerhood. Side tip: A lot of pack and plays have crossbars at the bottom that make it pretty uneven to sleep in, so do your research before buying. The one we chose is designed to be a comfortable sleeping alternative.
One gets dirty, you have a backup. These are high rated and waterproof. Side tip: Put both covers on the mattress. Then when you have a messy midnight change, you just whip the old one off and have a new one already in place.
OPTIONAL sleep
An auto rocker or bouncer or swing*
Minimal/Multifunctional: It’s in the optional section for a reason. But I’m considering something smaller than the Pack and Play that I can easily move room to room or set baby in for visits grandparents, etc. This is a 3 in 1. It’s a bassinet that lays flat for bedtime, sits half up for napping or soothing during the day (I picture being able to get dressed and put on makeup…If I want), and sits all the way up for stimulation/interaction when you can’t/don’t want to hold them (Hands free? Joy!)
Diapering
We have never had a baby before so we wanted to be green sensitive and cost-effective, but also realistic for our new phase of life, so we decided on biodegradables for the first month or so, when they’re going through a ton of diapers, and then phasing in cloth as the frequency decreases and we get used to our new normal. Side Note: For those of you open to something a bit outside of the average north american comfort zone: Elimination Communication. I’m still doing research on this but I am pretty excited about the possibility of a child being potty trained at a year or two old. I’ll keep you posted on updates with this
If disposable diapering:
Stats: 900 diapers for newborn to 3 months (avg is 10/day) and 630 diapers for 3-6 months (avg is 7/day). Holy moley.
Minimal/Multifunctional: All are the same, with the same inserts (no choices to make) and should last me till potty trained. I got mine (25 Bumgenius AIOs) off Craigslist for $150 with inserts. I’m wondering if that’s too many, but it was a bulk sale and I can simply not use some if so. I’m not going to even pretend to know much about cloth diapering. I got the basic info and rely on those savvy moms and dads out there for expertise. Side note: Have a few disposables ready for emergencies and mental health. We’re shooting for 300 disposables/biodegradables total (1 month worth.) We’re going with one brand, 2 sizes (newborn and 0-3mo), biodegradable disposables for a month or less then switching to cloth.
I chose a set because I wanted at least two. One large for at home and one medium for travel baby bag. The set I got is inexpensive, high related and comes in a 3 pack. I’m thinking I’ll use the smallest one for either a bottle when my husband takes ‘em out, liquids like balms, or wet swimsuits as they get older (remember, plan for the future!)
We are new at this and want any advantage possible. When I heard there were biodegradable inserts that meant less poop scraping and spraying, I was hooked. This pack is high rated and $25 for 400.
A lot of people go without or use coconut oil: I love that! Just be careful if you’re using cloth diapers because coconut oils can degrade or damage the materials. I chose Earth Mama Organic Diaper Balm because its high-rated, pretty natural and works with cloth diapers.
Feeding
Boob(s): Got ’em? Great! Natural or modified, they’ll work. Everything else is optional.
OPTIONAL feeding
Formula
I’m hoping to breastfeed, but I’ve heard of so many women that by choice or not, utilize formula. All I can say is: Awesome! Formula is great. Breastfeeding is great. Feeding your baby is great! This can be tricky because while its good to have some on hand, you can’t be sure whether or not your child will exhibit sensitivity, so I’d recommend having 2-3 different cans available. Then you can try different ones if you feel your child is sensitive. Please make sure to donate or pass along the formulas that don’t work well for you to another parent.
Breastfeeding Education
Not a “thing” per se, but if you’re planning of breastfeeding, it can change your life in those first few weeks. I’d recommend the Milkology course because breastfeeding is NOT easy! Natural? Yes. Easy? No!
You could definitely just use a pillow you have around the house too. I haven’t done a lot of research yet, but I would love to learn more about natural breastfeeding positions, that eliminate the “need” for a breastfeeding pillow. Please comment below if you have some good resources! I did purchase a My BreastFriend Deluxe at a thrift store for $8. Sweet!
Most of the time insurance will partially or fully cover these! I needed one because I intended to return to work. The one I wanted (and my insurance covers) is the Medela Instyle. You can also rent from hospitals as well, so do your research if you’re on the fence.
Minimal/Multifunctional: You can pop these on one boob while the baby feeds on the other and catch the dribbles or use as a manual pump. I even read one post where a woman puts hers on at night and has almost a full bottle of milk by morning! I may have to investigate the safety and spillage factors there, but worth a look. Some women actually prefer the manual pumps to the electric as well.
This seems to really come down to parent/child preference. I’m planning on breastfeeding but also using some Dr. Brown’s I got for free because you never know how breastfeeding will work out and eventually I’ll be going back to work. Plus, I want my hubby to be able to bond with baby (and let me sleep) by feeding ‘em occasionally.
Minimal/Multifunctional: I consider these minimal because they allow you to do less laundry (instead of changing your double-bullseye shirt stains, you just pop a new pair of these in when the leaking threatens.) I suppose you could also use them to wash your face after you stop breastfeeding.
Preference. You may just want to wait and see how you do breastfeeding and sometimes the hospital will give these to you. They’re really helpful for inverted nipples. Example product of my personal battle between “Be Prepared!” and “Live with less!”
Preference. Some mamas suggest rubbing breast milk on your nipples and letting it dry. I’m going to get some Earth Mama Angel Baby on hand because cracked nipples scare the heck outta me!
Independent Feeding Supplies
Remember, we’re planning for the next years, not the next month- capitalize on the gift-giving spirit for long term blessings!
2 silicone bibs: for mealtime, these can go in the clothes or dishwasher.
4 drool bibs*: love these Bibdanas. You can also DIY, which is what I did.
A high chair*: think light, stable and portable. I wanted one that could travel easy and be used at restaurants or other houses.
2 Utensils: Aren’t thesecute? But they’re also light for traveling and double as toys.
1 Bowel: I’ve never used thisbut I really don’t like cleaning spilled food, so I’m betting on the silicone suction for some help on that. Since its made of stainless steel it should last through play sessions, drum solos, floor falls, and years.
2 sippy cups/sports thermos: I chose Hydroflask because come in multiple sizes, are stainless steel for long use, exchange-able tops from sippy to sports. My husband and I also each have a big one and LOVE how they keep things cold or hot for a long time! If they don’t get lost, they will last many years. Remember, try to plan for more than the next few months with registry gifts!
I’m opting for both, but I think you could easily do one or the other. I love the idea of wrapping with something very light since Florida is HOT y’all! So I’m debating between either the Happy Wrap or Vlokup Baby Wrap (8-35lb.) My husband feels wrapping is a little too hippy dippy, so for carrier we decided on the Infantino Flip 4-in-1 Convertible Carrier (8-32lb.)
All mentioned above have great reviews, work for a broad weight/age range, in a variety of settings and are neutral colors.
My recommendation is if you can, buy one that grows with your child. Its long-term savings and less plastic. This one has great reviews and fits 5-100lbs depending on positioning. You can buy new, or if you buy used, make sure you check the expiration date (yes, car seats do expire due to degrading in the heat of the car.)
Honestly, I’m waffling on this because I hope to be baby-wearing. I only see this being useful for walks, but I LOVE walks in the neighborhood and we have a lot of paved paths where we live. I encourage you to really evaluate your situation and see if its even worth your money, time and effort.
Minimal/Multifunctional: We’re looking at the Summer Infant 3D Lite because its high rated, not crazy expensive, 16lb (we live on 2nd floor), fair sun shade (Florida y’all), good maneuverability, folds up family small for travel and weight limit is 50lb so it should last us a few years.
Ya need it, don’t wait till a late night with an upset baby to get it. Tympanic (ear) and temporal (forehand) temps are not always accurate in newborns and the gold standard for pediatricians is rectal.
Minimal/Multifunctional: The one listed is small, works for oral, axillary (armpit) and rectal (yes, it’s fine, just clean with alcohol.)
Bulb or hose, it’s up to you. Babies breathe exclusively through their nose initially so it is important to be able to clear the airway quickly and effectively. We opted for the NoseFrieda Snot Sucker for better sanitary and efficacy reasons.
Worth the “just in case” for us. I want to prep for not NEEDING to leave the house for weeks after birth if I can.
Teether necklace
I opted for three necklaces actually, 1 silicone adult, 1 amber adult and 1 amber child. My rationale for the adult ones is for the babe to have something to grab and chew on when we’re holding ‘em other than my hair, clothes or my husband’s chest hair (ouch!) and to have one ready for when the babe starts experiencing teething pains. There’s some beautiful adult amber necklaces and a great gift pack with a child amber and adult silicone necklace.
From the general consensus it’s a godsend after birth and I’ve been wanting to try a bidet anyway, so it works out perfect. You can either go with a little travel on (like this one) or invest in a stationary one (like this). I will say I’ve been eyeballing the permanent one for everyday use and to help with cloth diaper cleaning.
Belly binder
I’m totally new to this, but I love the idea and there’s a lot of testimonials out there. The idea is that binding helps your uterus return to its normal size more quickly and can help with cramping and splinting c-section incisions. Debating trying the Bengkung binder from an etsy shop. There’s also some Velcro options that look temptingly easy on Amazon that I’d love to compare. We shall see!
OPTIONAL Toys
No, you didn’t miss the “mandatory” section for this topic- there isn’t one! Babies are experiencing a whole new world and really don’t “need” any specific toys. I remember my sister telling me that even with all the gifts their first child got, her favorite was a wooden kitchen spoon. Really? Yep. So in reality, this whole section is optional, and really based on Amazon reviews. I’d also say the current trend in eco-conscientious communities is towards toys that inspire the child to actively play, imagine and create (think blocks, tools, scarfs, etc,) rather than observe passively (think batteries, sounds, shows.)
Black and white books
They’re mesmerizing to babies with two I bookmarked: the animal book and the bug book. Magic peace and quiet… really more for me than them.
Story books*
Pick ones YOU enjoy. You’ll be reading them a lot throughout pregnancy and childhood. I still recall Paul Goble books on Native American legends and stories from my childhood with love and warmth, as well as now appreciating the gorgeous illustrations. I also found this awesome Some Bugs book that appeal to any active imagination- fun illustrations from a bug’s view! I’m also planning on reading my own chapter books out loud. I enjoy them and I figure it’s more about the voice for an infant anyway.
Great for teethers, biodegradable, last forever and don’t look garish in your living room! Maybe you have someone in your family who could DIY them? If not, how about these?
What are the * and ** through the article?
The asterisks denote items that you can find second-hand. Some easier “*” and some harder “**” Thrift, consignment, garage sales items: PLEASE DO! You can get amazing deals on some of these things. I remember being shocked and a little overwhelmed the first time I walked into a specialty kids consignment store by the vast selection of baby, maternity and kids items (and honey, I grew up getting all my “new” clothes from Goodwill.) Just clean or wash items and save that dough! Also, keep in mind the stores you like, because chances are you‘ll be back there in the next few years toting in your used items for a quote.
*You can get GREAT deals on these items used! It’s a great way to save lots of money and also save the environment.
**These are a little harder to find good quality or prices but certainly do-able if you keep your eyes peeled.
All in all, your life, baby, and family can be very different from the next person’s and that’s totally ok. While I tried to make this list as short and useful as possible, I can’t help but write from my perspective. Really consider your situation and make adjustments as needed without feeling guilty for having “too much” (oh that’s not minimalist) or having “too little” (don’t you value your baby?) Do what is best for your family and your situation- it is yours after all. We can do this.
