So, I love minimalism. But I also enjoy shopping. *WORLDS COLLIDE* Well, that’s what most people think anyway. But for me, I maintain a “live with less” lifestyle and still love to pop by stores.
I do this by adopting a stance I haven’t really seen or heard of anywhere else. The approach I take is one of appreciation. I like going out to different stores and almost viewing them like an art gallery. There are such lovely things that have taken time and resources to make. That is something to consider and admire. This doesn’t mean that I need to take them home.A great quote I heard the other day was “Appreciate without the need to possess.” Things can be lovely, I can enjoy them for a moment, and life can move on. I think this approach makes a little more sense from the aspect of second hand stores, because they have such a broad range of items and origins. But if you have a particular store that you love the designs in, that would make sense too! As I mentioned, I love secondhand stores, but I also love Anthropologie. Anthropologie is what I would consider a higher end store here in the states with whimsical and feminine designs. Think vintage fairytales with humor. I love going in to admire the creative energy and adorable items, but I rarely purchase. Just like visiting a museum, gallery or garden, it is enough to view, appreciate and have enriched my day with something lovely. No need to buy.
Now, depending on your tendencies, your strengths and weaknesses or where you are on your minimalist journey, this may not be a positive habit. For some people, this may lead to acquiring a lot of stuff you don’t need! If that’s you, its ok not to shop as well. You don’t have to “prove” your minimalist grit by doing something that isn’t fun or good for you. It’s great that we are all different, lets not try to make everyone the exact same.
All that to say: if you’re a minimalist, you can still enjoy shopping, just spin it as appreciation and don’t feel the need to buy. On the other hand, if you’re a minimalist and shopping is your kryptonite, then don’t! That’s ok too. We can all do this thing called minimalism very well and very different at the same time.
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